Despair: Jenni Murray says headlines saying that happiness is being slim drive her mad and any woman who has a man who does not like 'real' women should walk out the door. You may have noticed that also making the news is the terribly sad story of year-old reality TV star Chantelle Houghton, who says that years of trying to be fashionably skinny have rendered her infertile. Then we should walk out of the door and find ourselves a man who appreciates a real woman. The barmy research, which was carried out at the University of Tennessee, involved inviting married couples, all under the age of 35, to fill out a questionnaire every six months for four years. A pair well-matched, I would say. So, what about the Jack Spratts and their wives of this world?